thattuna:

All the time

But that is what the dishwasher is for….Duh

“You’re so pretty”
No im not, im soo ugly.
“WELL SHIT, YOU UGLY THEN, DAMN”

This goes for guys too

(via alittlebitoromance)

Ok so, as most of you know, I am trying to get into the dating scene.  At 26, shockingly, I am sort of new to the whole dating thing.  More specifically dating wit the intent of a relationship.  I am tired of just hooking up and want something more substantial.  So far it’s been interesting but hard.  I am not used to this.  I am not used to the anxiety and uncertainty of if the other person likes you or if it’s going well, or what the other peson is thinking.  In the past I would just meet up with a guy and we would mess around within an hour. That meant it was going well.  If it wasn’t going well one of us would go home.  It was simple. I didnt have to worry about what the other guy was thinking cuz we were doing stuff.  Who cares what hes thinking? haha.  Getting physical was my re-assurance that the guy liked me.  Of course, afterwords, reality would set in and I would realize I am still alone. 

Now, things are different.  I am trying to set up more dates, I’m determined to control myself from getting physical too soon.  I am trying to date different people just to keep my options open.  So far, as hard as dating has been, its been an interesting a fun experience.  So far this is the break down of my recent love life:

Guy#1: I met him at a group meeting at SJSU.  I thought he was cute when i first saw him.  We went out twice.  Because I am a pussy I couldn’t ask as a “date”.  I asked if we could hang out.  haha  *sigh* Long story short I was rejected but we are still friends. :)

Guy #2: Second guy.  I drove all the way up to Berkeley and picked him up.  It was really fun.  We ate Thai food at a Buddhist temple, watched a movie, and hung out on a hill over-looking Berkley.  However, he is moving out of state so it’s not gonna happen.  But we also are still friends.  He took me to a baseball game and that was pretty fun.

Guy #3: Long story short, he was VERY drunk.  AND, he smokes. and hes not a good drunk.  So basically…No

Guy #4: We met up at what used to be smoke eaters by Santa Clara University.  However, it was closed.  So, we ended up going to Chipotle.  We had a pretty good conversation.  i enjoyed hanging out with him.  And we agreed that we will hang out again.  :)  Unfortunately, he told me he will be busy for the next 2 weeks :( So, we will see what happens.

Guy #5: I have yet to meet this guy in person.  We have had some interesting conversations online.  Our schedules just haven’t been compatible.  Hopefully we can hang out soon.  I already have the date planned out.  Honestly, I sorta feel that we may just end up as friends.  He sort of has been giving hints that he just wants to be friends.  But who knows?

Guy #6: Just wants to be friends but we totally hit it off.  So, it worked out

So I guess it’s a toss up between #4 and #5.  Leaning towards #4 but i definitely wanna give #5 a chance.  So, we will see.  The fact that I wont see #4 for 2 weeks definitely makes things hard as well.  Whatever happens happens I guess.  And btw, I dont plan on adding anyone else to this list for now.  I wanna keep it at 2 to keep it simple.

So, thats an update on my dating life.  Just thought I’d share

Got highlights

So I was watching Modern Family the other night and the mom was talking to her daughter about college, how much fun it was, how great of an experience it was, and how she would do anything just to live those days again and to be that age again. 

And omg i started getting hella sad cuz thats EXACTLY how i feel.  My youth is gone. I am no longer in school. I work. I have no spring break, no winter break.  in 3 years I will be 30. 

So as most of you know, I am Catholic.  I may not be the most religious person and I may not agree with everything the Church says but it is still a significant part of my life and I have my reasons for being what I am. 

Let me just state that a Christian is a follower of Christ, so Catholics ARE Christian.  We acknowledge one God and we consider Jesus Christ as our savior and follow him.  

Something that bugs me is other Christians putting down the Catholic church and attempt to aggressively convert me.  Many times I have been told by non-Catholic Christians that as a Catholic, I am unable to have a relationship with Christ and that I do not accept him.  Really? I believe he is my savior, I pray to him(meaning I talk to him), I ask him to help me, etc.  How is that not accepting Christ and not having a relationship with him? Also, I am told that Catholics do not follow the Bible.  While I understand how people can get that impression, it is not true.  Even in the Bible Jesus talks about living to the “letter of the law” as opposed to the “spirit of the law”. The later being more important that the former.  Catholics do not follow every single detail of the Bible.  We believe in living according to the message of it, not EVERY SINGLE word.  Not to say living according to every single word is necessarily bad but it is simply just another way of following Christ.  I believe that as Christians we all follow the same God and we all follow Christ. we just do it in different ways.  But in the end we are still followers of Christ.  Another thing I want to clear up is that Catholics do NOT worship idols.  First of all we only worship God.  We do not worship the saints or Mary.  The Saints are people who led exemplary lives and we look to them as examples of how to live.  We ask them to pray for us and to watch over us just like how you ask your loved ones who have passed away to watch over you.  Mary is the mother of Christ.  Just like how you listen to your mother, Christ being a good son will also listen to his mother.  Which is why we also ask her to pray for us and to watch over us.  As for the statues and crucifixes, we do not worship the statues.  They are there to serve as tangible things for us to see while we pray.  We do NOT think that the Jesus on the crucifix is Jesus himself. It is just there are a reminder.  Back to the example of loved ones who have passed away, most people have pictures of their dead loved ones.  do you think the picture is ACTUALLY that loved one? The picture of Grandma IS Grandma? No, of course not.  Just like how we do not think the statue of Mary IS Mary

Now, I COULD talk about historical facts, discrepancies, and other reason as to why I am Catholic as opposed to other Christian denominations. But, I am not typing this to put down anyone else beliefs because I feel that we all have our reasons and we are all entitled to our own beliefs.  Not to mention the last time I debated religion with a friend of mine who was Christian it almost ended in a fist fight.  I admit I sometimes jokingly say things like “That’s because you’re not Catholic” and what not.  My friends know not to take me seriously.  However, I never  sit someone down and tell them that my religion is superior and genuinely try to convince them to be Catholic.  It’s not right, and i have no right to push my beliefs on anyone.  If anyone has questions or is interested in learning about being Catholic, I am more than happy to help them.  One of my friends, in fact, has been interested and I have been there to answer his questions and explain things, but i have never told him he HAS to be Catholic and i have even told him to check out other churches till he finds one that fits his needs. 

Overall, I believe that we all want to get to heaven, and that there is not only one way to worship God. Whether, you follow every single word int he Bible, just follow the general message, pray the rosary, go to confession, get baptized as a child, or as an adult, get confirmed, speak tongues, or whatever else your church does, we are all still worshiping and glorifying God. Even if we disagree about how the worshiping should be done, we can all agree that Christ is our Savior. right?

This shit cracks me the fuck up…haha…This is dedicated to certain people….You know who you are

My future tattoo

So tommorow is Chinese/Vietnamese New Year.  One of the clients at work is Vietnamese and she came with a letter saying she will be absent tommorow because of the celebration.  Mind you, she only speaks Vietnamese.  My co-workers said to her (their English is pretty bad too btw) “You no school tommorow”.  The poor girl not understanding looked confused.  “You no school tommorow because of Gung Hay Fat Choy” (Chinese for “Happy new year”…NOT Vietnamese so of course she has no idea what they are saying) She looked even more confused.  They continued to say it in Chinese and kept wondering why she didnt understand.  Finally I told them “Your saying it in Chinese, she doesnt know what youre saying” They just looked at me like I was an idiot and continued and she continued to get worried cuz like 5 people kept saying the same thing. Finally I looked at her and was like “Tommorow Tet…No School tommorow”.  She then looked relieved and nodded.

Freaking old people